Our articles will help you in your fight against sex addiction, give you healing tips for recovery and help you get your life back on track.
People cheat for different reasons, whether they’re men or women, people cheat. Now, if you’re someone who’s been cheated on, let me be very clear about something. It’s not your fault. You didn’t cause it and it’s not about you. It’s about the person who cheated.
I’ve been working with cheaters for over thirty years so let me go through the 7 different types.
Lust-free living is more than a set of ideas to make you stop, pause, and think. It’s a lifestyle you can truly enjoy. I want to give you tools to live free and show you how to overcome lust. We know that “where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Corinthians 3:17).
How can you know if something, anything, is an addiction? Whether it’s alcohol, drugs, work, porn, or sexual addiction. Here are several characteristics of an addiction and you can apply each to sexual addiction. Some of these ideas I’m sharing will be coming from my book, Final Freedom. Characteristics of Addiction 1. Effort This man […]
Maintaining sexual success while you build whatever kingdom you are trying to build is the cornerstone. A sexually healthy brain is critical. Many people want to be ultimately successful. They might want a boat, nice car, a beach house and of course designer clothes. For others ultimate success may be having their own television show […]
Everyone has their own journey down the river of growth and change. Many of us have rapids to overcome, otherwise known as behaviors that we just can’t seem to get a grip on. As human beings we are all so very different. We have all traveled from a different past. Some of us had pain […]
His sex addiction is not your fault – Help for Wives of Sex Addicts. It’s one of those most beautiful days of the year. She is more beautiful than ever. It’s her wedding day; she remembers walking down the aisle, the music, the vows, the rice, the partying and even the honeymoon. It all seemed […]
John is 40 years old and has been married for more than 12 years and has 2 children. He has been fortunate to have climbed a corporate ladder and is making more than 200K a year.
His life on the outside looks perfect; nice car, big house, beautiful wife, great kids but all of that was going to change with the next pone call;
Sex addiction is getting more and more media attention. I have been asked by Oprah, Dr. Phil, Montel, even (this is really dating me) Phil Donahue and so many others what sex addiction is and how can somebody know if they are a sex addict. My first glib response to this question is of course, […]
Have you ever had a secret? Something you knew that no one else did? That one thing that if found out, you feel like could change people’s opinions of you, your relationships with them, or challenge and threaten to destroy everything you’ve tried so hard to build. Sex addiction affects your entire world as a partner or spouse of a sex addict.
Polygraphs Help Define What Is True. Truth is important. It helps us know what is real. We use truth as a starting place to define our world, environment, and perspective. Truth is even more important when treating sex addiction. Sex addiction is a secret world that is usually locked away to everyone except for the addict.
Is Your Sex Out of Control? Is It Leading to Sex Addiction? Watch this video on out of control sex or read the blog post below. Sex is great. Everyone loves it, right? But is your sex out of control? Let’s talk about that idea for a few minutes. When does sexual behavior cross a […]
“Dr. Weiss, my husband has a sex addiction.” I hear this all the time because it’s what I deal with on a daily basis in my office at Heart to Heart Counseling Center. Sexual addiction is a big issue. Whether it’s porn, strip clubs, affairs, prostitutes, or online, sex addiction is a driving force that […]
The Power of Touch and Sex – Touch Me Please Touch is a powerful thing. It plays a huge part in how we interact with and show love to each other. Remember your dating phase? That time when you spent so much quality time together with that special person, talking about all kinds of things, […]
Sex addiction is one of those things you don’t really give much thought to. Sure, everyone knows about those areas of the city where the girls work, but it is rarely talked about. Jokes are sometimes made trying to relate porn to mustaches, stilettos, garters, and other cheesy things, but it’s often because of a […]
Finding out about your partner or spouse’s sex addiction is devastating. Knowing that your spouse or partner is addicted to pornography, having affairs, or cheating on you can feel like being buried under a pile of bricks. That knowledge leaves your spirit crushed, saps your energy, and darkens your sky on the brightest day. You […]
It’s all about the “birds and the bees.” Do you remember the first time you heard about sex from your parents, friends, or school peers? Kids are learning about sex and becoming sexually active at younger and younger ages. It is important that we teach them good values, boundaries, and standards when it comes to […]
Our Culture Labels Everything We tend to categorize and label everything in our culture including lifestyles, behaviors, compulsions, phobias, addictions, and hobbies. The common element is that everything that we label has an impact on our life. Either for the better or worse. Sometimes, we attach these labels to things we like and appreciate. Other […]
1. When people talk about sex addiction, some people might laugh and say things like, “I should be so lucky.” So what is sex addiction, and how serious is it? Sex addiction is laughed about until people understand it. People laughed about alcoholism in the 1940’s, but now we understand the impact that this addiction […]